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You Can't Heal What You Can't Admit
December 1, 2016 @ 9:00 AM
I see many couples in my office. Most come in blaming each other for their unhappiness and for the marital problems. Suzie says that if John was not so lazy then she wouldn't be so angry and depressed all the time. Tony says that if Marsha had not nagged him so much, he would not have had the affair with Gwen. And on and on it goes. I understand this more that they know because I was exactly like them. To be honest, on my down days, if I’m not talking to God and focusing my thoughts on Him, I can slip right back there. Trust me, it’s not pretty. Ask my husband!
One of the God inspired actions that I take with my couples is having separate sessions with each spouse for 1-3 sessions, where I ............